For anyone that knows me, this is not a new topic, but I don't think I have ever written down my opinion about sex in today's society. The other day I was listening to the radio (because I have two CD's stuck in my in-dash CD player and I can't get them out) and this guy was rapping about how cool he is and how he was a "player" and whatnot. Now if that kind of thing is your bag, I don't mean any offense, but I don't particularly think that kind of thing is cool. There was definitely a point in my life when I thought that guys who got lots of girls were really cool but then I realized that those people are going to be really sad some day. The fact of the matter is that when you are old, if you are lucky enough to have kids they will be busy with their own families and unless you have someone your own age to keep you company, you are going to be pretty lonely.
The other tough fact is that by that age, the only thing that doesn't sag is your personality. No relationship based on looks and sex can survive the effects of gravity over the years without lots and lots of plastic surgery. People who are promiscuous and flaunt it are just trying to gain acceptance from others and usually have deep-seeded issues with self esteem that cause their behavior. I think deep down most people know this but sex and desire are such a part of our everyday lives that people can't help but want it and be envious of people who are really just announcing their insecurity to the world. I sort of pity these people because they will never experience true love, and what's more, they are proud of it.
"Play on playa, but don't be surprised when you wake up one day old and lonely. Ya heard?"
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